Curvy, Confident, Fabulous!

[tjay]

We all come in different shapes and sizes but women have the tendency to watch their weights whenever they eat. Their weight and size is like a strict religion for them to follow and this is like a curse to them for being a woman. They are either eating not enough or overeating and suffer from eating disorders like Bulimia and Anorexia .

They go to great lengths to have a fit and toned body and watch what they tuck inside their mouth. But unknown to some of them , the more they pummeled their bodies into a great shape, the more intimidating it becomes to the men.

They become objects of man's fantasies and men will only treat them as playthings as they know they will not be able to afford such a high maintenance woman. Only the men who have the deep pockets who will be brave enough to go near them but most of these rich men are in their twilight years.

Not all men have the same taste. They may love to ogle at curvy, voluptuous and shapely ladies , big boobs , big butts , long sexy and slender legs etc .

Men are more realistic and pragmatic and they do not go for just those external physical attributes but also for their personalities and characters. It is not the external beauty but the beauty that emanates from the inside of her heart. This is more lasting and more favorable than the body which will be covered with fats 10 years down the road.

What really attracts a man is the level of confidence a woman has. She knows what she wants and knows where she is going and her high self esteem and confidence is like a strong magnet that attracts and pull others to her. Both sexes are attracted to confident people.

She may be an average looking girl without any outstanding features but she oozes confidence and this makes her very appealing to the opposite sex. There is also the joy in her face if she is the religious type and this beauty cannot be attained by any make ups, but by only knowing God .

Some can get this joy by eating the right kind of food . For what you eat, is what you become. Your external beauty comes from your insides. The beauty you plaster on will never last and those chemicals you apply daily on your face and body will slowly diminish your real beauty.

No matter what shape or size you are, you should be happy and accept it . For each and everyone of us are unique.